Good Day, Gentlemen. Today I would like to offer advice to the men who have difficulty finding the clothes to literally “fit your style”. Gentlemen that search literally high and awkwardly low to find a good look, fit and price for wardrobe. Yes, I’m talking to you Big and Tall shopper. The B&T Gentleman is not so much a rare breed as much his resources are limited. Also, much patience is needed to find clothes that fit well AND look good on your body type. Fortunately, being a man of six feet one inch I don’t have too many issues finding clothes because I am right on the cusp of being well proportioned.
I’m just saying… I clean up nice.
Enough about me, let’s get back on track. A friend of mine asked what was my opinion about B&T style; himself being about a 6’4 ex-SpecWar sailor with broad shoulders, long legs and arms. He finds it difficult to find quality clothing that fits well and looks good (remember: FITS WELL and LOOKS GOOD, I can’t emphasize that enough). He rocks a very casual, laid back good-looking style. He likes retailers like Banana Republic, and J. Crew. He doesn’t prefer to shop online because it’s like rolling the dice when purchasing items you can’t try on first. So here is my advice to him, and all other B&T Gentleman willing to listen.
I’m going to keep this limited to the Gentleman who are taller than average; I may touch on some things for my bigger around the waist Gents, but for now this will be for the tall and lanky.
1. Know the type of look you are going for.
If you are concerned with the clothes, then you are concerned with your image. Meaning in this world that we live in, image is everything, and looking good is just as important as knowing it is you’re talking about. On second thought, today if you look good you get a pass, but that’s neither here nor there. Know if you want to rock a more casual, preppy, vintage, minimalistic, trendy, or designer look. It will also help you form a budget, and that my friends, is something that is also very important: To look good AND not having to break the bank doing so. This will edit your search area tremendously. Speaking of which…
2. Do some research.
The thing about style is that it rarely sneaks up on you. You don’t just wake up one day with a feel of “what goes with what”. I urge you to research,Gentleman! In our day and age the world is at your fingertips. I still need inspiration and I am positive the most stylish and famously successful Gents are constantly building their knowledge on styles and fashion. My Number 1 inspiration is the streets, hands down. I take mental notes on how someone wore an article of clothing, or an entire outfit, and make it my own by adding something to it. I also buy men’s fashion and lifestyle magazines to stay in tune with the mainstream. I scour the internet looking at pictures of men from the 1920s, 30s, 40s and 50s to see what they wore. I read men’s fashion blogs to see what others are writing about and wearing. As effortless style can be it takes a lot of work and pre-planning! You have to be willing to look and find what you like.
2. Know your measurements.
Never, ever, ever, ever leave your house to go shopping without having a game plan. Doing so leads to one of two things, maybe even a combination of both: Frustration and impulse shopping. You’re either going to waste hours “just looking” for something and you don’t even have an idea you’re looking for, or you’re going to buy the first thing you see at the first store you enter. Here’s a tip – find a store that does in house tailoring, such as Nordstrom, Dillard’s, Macy’s, Mens Warehouse, or Neiman Marcus, and ask to be measured. It’s free. Take note of these measurements, either plug them into your phone or use pen and pad, but knowing them is crucial. It cuts time and stress to know what retailers/designers offer your sizes. When it’s all said and done you should know your waist size, inseam, neck width and arm length, shoe size, underwear size (you’d be surprised by the number of men who don’t wear the correct fit of underwear HINT: they should be snug and supportive), etc.
3. Have patience.
Probably most importantly, have patience. Very few retailers have a B&T section in store. However, you want to search for a store in your area with such a section so you can try on clothes and actually see how they fit. I cannot stress enough how important it is for B&T men to try on all clothing before you buy. In addition to try before you buy, be willing to spend a little more to get clothing altered. Most designers have general sizes, and spending a little extra to ensure a good look really pays off in the end. Retailers such as Nordstrom is an excellent example of this. The personal experience the sales associates offer is what sets them apart from others.
I live in the Hampton Roads, Virginia area. The first retailer I suggested to the friend I spoke of earlier was Dillard’s. In no way am I endorsing Dillard’s as the première resource for men’s fashion, but they do have an impressive B&T selection, good designers, and great sales. Also, I am a product of my environment; easy access fuels my buying habits. Some may suggest Casual XL, which specializes in B&T clothing. In my opinion it’s a hit or miss, though there is no such thing having too many resources.
Now that we have the basics down, I want to focus on fits and patterns. These aspects are important because it can make or break your look. Being a bigger Gentleman means you stand out more, and the patters or fit will REALLY stand out on you. Things to mention, thin vertical lines and bright colors are something not to be afraid of. Though mainstream philosophy would have you believe horizontal stripes and dark colors give the ideal aesthetic, be brave and go with subtle vertical pin stripes and brighter colors. Try different things, then try some other things, then try some more things.
Big and Tall Gentleman, your physique is unique, and being unique isn’t a flaw, it’s a blessing. Use your physique to make a statement. A big, bold statement. Peace.